A magnet is oftentimes associated with a person who attracts (intentional or not) the opposite sex (or the same sex for a number of peopleJ). And it seems good to be such! You are like a treasure which can only be won by the most deserving, most courageous hero. But it has never been an advantage to act as a magnet to those people who are already taken. Though sad and quite annoying to admit, I realized that I am becoming this type of pathetic inadvertent magnet (PIM). And I hate it!
Girls are mostly vulnerable. Show us affection, and we will easily reciprocate. Treat us even more special than usual, and we will fall for you eventually. But it would just be ill-fated of us to discover later that the guys, who we thought would soon be our knights in shining armor, actually have existing romantic relationships(sss). Worse is to learn that they have been with their girlfriends(sss) for a long time already, or that they have already been engaged. And we, being the sensitive girls, would wish and pray even harder that their relationships would soon come to an end, so we can get into the picture and get rid of the (wickedJ) girlfriend(sss) forever. Bad! But come to think of it. Who actually triggered us to be evils? These very flirtatious guys, right? They are FLIRTS! They cannot be satisfied with what they have, that they tend to hunt for more. And once they have already proven their pogi points, it will just be easy for them to leave their guinea pigs—girls they are flirting with. Ruthless! I am not sure if these guys actually have romantic feelings for their victims. Perhaps, some of them have. But more often than not, they practically flirt just to spice their lives up—they want to complicate their perfect relationships. Very selfish of them! They do not seem to mind how drastic girls can get when heartaches get on the way. Why do not they just focus on their own lives, and make the most out them? Why do they have to involve innocent girls (who were living peacefully until they came), and shortly turn them into relationship-wreckers? Why, guys? Why?
I have already committed a haunting mistake before. I obliviously acted as a PIM who, in due course, became desperate. I want to believe that I have learned my lesson from this experience. But now that I am again becoming this PIM (F*ck! What is it in me that keeps on making myself such?!), it seems that I have not suffered enough, that I still do not know where to place myself. Just like the first time, I easily fell for a flirt, and another flirt, and another flirt, and another flirt, and another flirt…(When will the counting stop for Christ’s sake? Grrrr!) But there’s one thing I am certain of right now—I will never be desperate again. I will not make myself appear ever more stupid. Once is enough! There will be no room for the same gaffe anymore.
Girls are mostly vulnerable. Show us affection, and we will easily reciprocate. Treat us even more special than usual, and we will fall for you eventually. But it would just be ill-fated of us to discover later that the guys, who we thought would soon be our knights in shining armor, actually have existing romantic relationships(sss). Worse is to learn that they have been with their girlfriends(sss) for a long time already, or that they have already been engaged. And we, being the sensitive girls, would wish and pray even harder that their relationships would soon come to an end, so we can get into the picture and get rid of the (wickedJ) girlfriend(sss) forever. Bad! But come to think of it. Who actually triggered us to be evils? These very flirtatious guys, right? They are FLIRTS! They cannot be satisfied with what they have, that they tend to hunt for more. And once they have already proven their pogi points, it will just be easy for them to leave their guinea pigs—girls they are flirting with. Ruthless! I am not sure if these guys actually have romantic feelings for their victims. Perhaps, some of them have. But more often than not, they practically flirt just to spice their lives up—they want to complicate their perfect relationships. Very selfish of them! They do not seem to mind how drastic girls can get when heartaches get on the way. Why do not they just focus on their own lives, and make the most out them? Why do they have to involve innocent girls (who were living peacefully until they came), and shortly turn them into relationship-wreckers? Why, guys? Why?
I have already committed a haunting mistake before. I obliviously acted as a PIM who, in due course, became desperate. I want to believe that I have learned my lesson from this experience. But now that I am again becoming this PIM (F*ck! What is it in me that keeps on making myself such?!), it seems that I have not suffered enough, that I still do not know where to place myself. Just like the first time, I easily fell for a flirt, and another flirt, and another flirt, and another flirt, and another flirt…(When will the counting stop for Christ’s sake? Grrrr!) But there’s one thing I am certain of right now—I will never be desperate again. I will not make myself appear ever more stupid. Once is enough! There will be no room for the same gaffe anymore.
